Love, LOve, LoVe, LoVE

Well, today topic is quite harsh and touchy ey :P :P so well yeah this question has been pop up in my mind from long time ago. So What is Love? and why is it matter so much?

So i have to admit it that question come out just because my restless soul. Feeling that can not do thing just because i don't understand how to do it, or how it is work.Well i think i know i kind of have enlightening now :) :) so here there are, What is LOVE actually mean?
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Background stories:
in this world we can't denied there are some formation of love:
1. Mom love to their children.
2. Love to their work
3. Love to materials
4. Love to their partner
5. true love
6. Falling in love
7. Being in love
8. Platonic Love
9. Love to their community, friends



hmmm and so many more,
there are some kind of reactions about love as well:
1. they accept it and go for it
2. they denied it and keep it as long as they can
3. they show it
4. they show it in the harsh way
5. they show it with lots of PDA
and soon

well a well a well, from the dictionary actually the meaning of love is passionate affection for another person, a feeling of warm personal attachment or deep affection, and  sexual passion or desire.

In my point of view,
I agree that love is passion. a feeling that human being have toward somebody or something. The differences between love is depend on how people adjust it to them. I used to believe, love only can happen just because you give them a chance ;) which is now i still believe little bit. even though sometimes you just can't deny that you just have it like that.

mom love to their children for me is the form of love of belonging, to what they used to have, the one that they look after and used to be part of them. But there are realization that is not about possession. it is about another creation that need care, need attention. which is as the normal human being that is the common need, to be needed and to be cared. vice versa So this kind of love i think can be quite deep but their understandable to letting go.

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Hmm other form of love, Platonic love. From dictionary it means an emotional and spiritual relationship between a couple that does not involve sexual desire. Which is this kind of love believed quite rare these days. One day i read book (true story)  about one of my favorite activist, he does love his "someone" really deeply. But he does no, he does not want to touch her at all because he does not want to make her suffer. It is sound cliche and confusing. I thought that is really strange way of thinking. However i think i'm start understand that. I think he has platonic love. He just want to look after her, provide everything she need to make sure her happy and will not get hurt at all. Okay this actually still confusing so maybe the conclusion is yet to be told hahahaha

Love because of lust, is the feeling that you get passionate of others that because of high desire of sex and the satisfaction of doing it with them. Even though in this case also involve emotional and spiritual relationship.

And Love than within time come with lust, is the relationship that build up from spiritual and emotional relationship which is with in the time developing the lust and desire of wanting each other in sex which is often called making love.

Nowadays I've noticed there are often the camouflage of love because of loneliness and the idea of being in love. Maybe that explain why people can change their partner just like that, while in some cases there are some people that are frustrated or even decided to suicide when they lost their love one.
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However, my conclusion is I think it doesn't really matter what kind of love that you have. As long you feel it, you know that you have passionate about something or someone just go for it. Listen to your own heart. Life is too short and they said you will never know until you try ;). So for love seeker if you does have that warm feeling and passion and happiness when you do something to someone or something keep doing it. Just because every human has a wonderful right to be Happy ever after. And Love never hurt, the expectation is hurt ;) so if u can love share the warmth and feeling and being happy. imagine how peaceful of life this would be ^__^

with love
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